Do you agree that the one thing out of many others you need while growing up is your room or your personal space? No matter how small it is or however it is, it should be your own. Many of us can relate to this. There should be at least one place that comes to your mind when you are done with everything and want to cry your heart out, but such that no one would see you at your worst. We come across such situations often. When that happens, you need a hideout of your own in which you can confide your emotions behind its walls. Being there alone for some time allows you to reflect on your actions so that you can fix them and go on with your life with a clear mind.
You can never really forget the past , especially if it is painful . You say you've moved on but , is that really the case ? No matter how much you try , the pain doesn't leave you just like that. It resides in your heart , somewhere in one of it's corners until it is triggered and even with the slightest of mention it is ready to peep out. You can't get rid of it as per your wish . It can either be avoided or you learn to go on living with it .
Time is not the greatest healer although it does aid in healing . It just brings to you more circumstances be it favourable or unfavorable which need to be dealt with first . When you divert your attention towards them , it helps you living in the present forgetting about the past for the time being. That's how you avoid it .
As for those who can't avoid it , start living with it , and with time get used to the pain becoming numb towards it .
" Because no matter how much you wanna let go of the past , the memories won't necessarily let you go !"
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